Short iterations

Sometimes it’s easy to forgot the value behind short iterations, so let’s discuss why they’re important.

While it’s sometimes true that splitting a big change into smaller pieces can be hard, it’s still worth it. Whenever you’re going through a long iteration, you aren’t getting feedback. You’re working in a bubble, and you might be running headfirst into a wall.

Short iterations are important because the iteration is your feedback loop. Once you finish an iteration you can get feedback on it. Getting it quickly is important, because it allows you to adjust at a lower value stage. Changing direction early is always easier than later.

The feedback comes from multiple sources by the way. You can get feedback from your colleagues, from tests, from seeing an idea work in production, from users or many other ways. Some issues and improvements are hard to predict, and feedback helps surface those quicker. That’s why short iterations are important. Feedback and adjusting based on that feedback is the goal.

This post was originally published on Medium on Nov 26, 2015.

Crucial Conversations

A couple of months ago I read the book Crucial Conversations and started applying its concepts. The premise of the book is that we are bad at conversations where opinions vary, emotions run strong and the stakes are high.

We’re bad as these kind of conversations because our brains have evolved a fight-or-flight response. This means we usually move to silence or violence when we feel unsafe. Which means dialogue stops. Which means our shared pool of meaning stays small. Which means we get suboptimal results. Individually smart people can do collectively stupid things when they communicate badly.

Crucial Conversations teaches you how to notice when you or others are gravitating towards silence or violence, and how to step out of the conversation to make it safe again. How to state controversial opinions in a way that gets heard, and how to explore the opinions and ideas of others, so everyone gets heard. And finally, how to turn those crucial conversations into action and results.

For me one of the most useful lesson was learning to bring up controversial or difficult issues faster, while encouraging others do to the same. Thus also finding solutions faster.

The other is the contrasting technique which helps you clarify what you mean by first saying what you don’t want. This one’s especially important in today’s world of online communication and remote work, where misunderstandings happen frequently.

This post was originally published on Medium on Oct 23, 2015.